Anonymous asked: I just read through every post on here, and I'm crying. I'm so confused, I don't understand what I'm doing. I related to about 70% of the posts on here, exspecially the ones about liking your bestfriends and stuff. I just don't know what to think. I might be in love with my bestfriend, and I just don't know what to do! I don't even know if I'm straight or not anymore!
Ok well first just take a big breath and calm down. It’s ok that you are scared. It may seem overwhelming but it will all work out with time. I think you need to really evaluate your attractions alone. Don’t worry about the stuff here or elsewhere because the only thing that really points to if you aren’t necessarily straight is who you like. That being said, figuring out if you are not straight doesn’t happen over night. Don’t feel the need to take action before you’re ready. Just think about your attractions and see where they take you.
emptyteaspoon asked: This is a ridiculously awesome blog. The Just Lez Signs are ridiculously true. Lets all just continue on being ridiculously cool lovers of chicks.
genericoriginality asked: ok this is not a submission or a question, but i just haaveee to say yall are awesome! for one, this blog is perfection. and two, you guys are super cute together. thanks for doing this :)
aw, thank you!
Anonymous asked: Hmm, just wondering. Could you see how many bi/lesbians are in the Pittsburgh area? :)
We don’t usually post these but we have a soft spot for Pittsburgh so here ya go.
Anonymous asked: I've been fighting with myself for years about my sexuality. I was a tom boy, I wore boy clothes, I had crushes on girls when I was young but thought it was normal. I hated myself over it some days. I have more girl crushes than guy ones. I just found this blog, and looked through the just lez signs. Most of them were true with me, still denying it all as I scrolled. Then I saw the Megan Fox photo and being too happy she's bi. I finally gave in and accepted that I'm bisexual. Thank you :)
Well congratulations on accepting. Don’t be afraid to be who you are anon!
Anonymous asked: I've been having one of THE biggest crushes ever on my best friend since the 5th grade. we started going out a month a go and she broke up with me saying that her being bi was "just a phase" I'm heart broken and and she still wants to be as close as we used to be before but i don't know if i can. should i get over her? should i stop talking to her? hellppp!
You don’t have to stop talking to her altogether if you don’t want to but you should definitely take some time apart from her. Healing from a broken heart takes time and spending time with your ex doesn’t help much. Listen to your feelings and ease back into the friendship if you decide that’s what you want to do. Good luck!
Anonymous asked: So I told this girl I liked her, even though she was straight and she said she liked me back. What would be the next step with that?
Well you are through the scary part so I guess the next step is to ask her out. She said she would be into it so its time to start! Try going out to dinner or having a movie night and see where it goes from there. Good luck!
Anonymous asked: Is there a way I can meet girls? I'm 16 and les but there is pretty much no-one-else that is out near where I live (Apart from one who is my ex) And the only way is gay pride :/ but that's once a year and I really want a girlfriend...
Would you be interested in talking to girls on tumblr? I have noticed a lot of relationships that have started on tumblr. Girls looking to meet other girls should like this post and get talking!
Anonymous asked: Im 16 bi but can't pull myself to coming out- even to my best friends. Is that bad?
There’s nothing wrong with that; I think you should come out when you’re ready. At some point you will probably have the desire to tell other people and that’s the best time to do it. Good luck when the time comes!
submarinedreams asked: I've been following your blog for a long time now, and I think you do such a good job. I've grown up into quite the lesbian with my motorcycle and my rainbow bracelets and my hatchback, and all of the posts and the pictures remind me so much of when I was younger discovering my sexuality. So keep up the good work!
thank you!
Anonymous asked: When I was growing up, I never liked overly girly toys. I didn't think boys were cute when I was in Middle School and now I don't think so still in High School. But one day the idea popped in my head that I might be homosexual. I've been wrestling it for weeks and I can't figure out if I am or not, can you please help me?!
Well since you have been thinking about it for a few weeks and still don’t have the answer “I’m definitely straight”, there is a good chance you’re not. I think you should just keep track of who you find attractive and be very open. With time, you might just find you would rather be with a girl than a guy.
Anonymous asked: Do you think bisexuality is possible? or do you think it just is a lesbian who doesn't know..?
I definitely think bisexuality is possible! In my opinion, bisexuality is the least understood sexuality because so many think you are either on one side of the fence of the other. Sexuality is fluid and varies from person to person.
