Anonymous asked: Question. So I think I found someone who could be my soul mate. Only he's a guy. And being a lesbian is such a central part of my identity that I'd be afraid to come out as straight. I know I could love him but I'd never be attracted to him for his anatomy. Do you think I'm being idiotic if I let him slide by?

Not idiotic, just scared but it is ok to be. It is scary when you think you have your sexual identity sorted out and your attractions take you elsewhere. I think you should go with what you feel and not what label you most identify with. Yes others might be confused and you might be confused yourself but if someone makes you happy, I don’t think there is anything wrong with that.

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