February 2012
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Anonymous asked: Please answer me! how can i know if i'm a lesbian? i mean iv'e been attracted to grils since i was little, but i've never been with one, i've always had boyfriends, but there is always something missing you know...specially in sex, that's why i thought i might be lesbian, but recently i had sex with a guy and i kind of like it, and now i had this gril after me, we had...
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Anonymous asked: Okay, so I watch Glee. I totally relate to everything on this page, but I'm starting to think that what if Glee's lesbian couple is the one that turned me gay?
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Anonymous asked: My girlfriend of is sexually confused. I am a girl and she has (romantic and sexual) feelings for me but says she is straight but likes me. She constantly says she must have a relationship with a guy to know for sure but says she loves me and doesn't want to break up. We're just teenagers and are in our first real relationship so i understand she wants to be with a guy at some point but...
“I’m a lesbian and i’m madly in love with a girl. I’m done...”
– twoandahalfyears
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Anonymous asked: Hey, so i love your blog so much. And i need some advice. I am bi, but not open to everyone. Im attracted to girls who are femme in style. There is a girl who is an open lesbian and butch apparently. She would be my first close friend who is a lesbian and i know is hitting on me, but im confused because i wanted was a lipstick/chapstick lesbian and not butch (no offense). What should I do? Hoping...
samurai-who-smells-of-sunflowers asked: Thank you so much for all the empowerment and advice that you channel through this blog. After years of hiding my identity, I finally came out today. Thank you for giving me the strength to be 100% honest with myself and others!
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shashashauna asked: Your reply to that annoying anon just made me die laughing.. Hilarious.
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Anonymous asked: FUCK DYKES
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Anonymous asked: Hi, we're looking for some advice. - We were just wondering, what would be your oppinions on asking a friend if they like girls or not? Being as caring and as loving as we can of course? We love her and we don't want her to hide it any longer, we don't mind if she likes girls, we want her to be happy without hiding part of herself to us. One of us girls have known her since nursery,...
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daniiseasanchors asked: just found this blog, reblogged 90% of it and I'm not obsessed, and creeped on both the owners. ♥ followed.
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Anonymous asked: i really like this girl , but she has a girlfriend , what do i do ?
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Anonymous asked: Okay, here's the think. I know I am a lesbian, but I never kissed anybody (boy or girl). I'm 17. I know, it's stupid, but can I really know I am gay if I didn't kiss a girl?
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Anonymous asked: For awhile, i thought i was straight, but everytime ive been with a guy i didnt really feel a connection. I've had sex with 3 guys and i just really did not like it. it wasnt that it was uncomfortable but just i didnt like the feeling of it. then a couple months later this girl i felt something for told me she liked me and i had such a strong connection for her and we went out and had sex and...
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Anonymous asked: is it true about cartilage piercings? right side gay? cause i just pierced my left. because im more comfortable with it. but im 100% lesbo
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Anonymous asked: How do I get over the girl I'm in love with? I know it will never work, becuase she hasn't talked to me in 3 months even though i've tried to start conversations.
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Anonymous asked: This question may sound base, but it's been on my mind awhile and you guys seem quite supportive/understanding, so I'm going to go on with it. I'm pretty much flat-chested, and I'm worried that girls won't like me since I look like a boy on the top (I suppose straight girls worry about the same thing?) I know people don't get attracted to others solely for physical...
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Anonymous asked: do you believe people can be conditioned to be attracted to certain things? like I went through a phase where I was open to the idea of having a girlfriend and finding girls sexually attractive, do you think what I subjected myself to during that time and my altered thought process might have planted feelings that were previously nonexistent?
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Anonymous asked: Though I've never asked a question myself, I've skimmed through the anons on your blog for quite sometime, and sorted through this confusion of my sexuality I had faced since the age of six, had asked questions far beyond that, digging deep into these feelings and affections for girls, only girls. What I'm trying to say is, I feel quite confirmed. Thank you.
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Anonymous asked: Hello (: Well not really a question nor submission, I just wanted to share the little story. Tomorrow for the first time ever I'll have a valentine and I'm so exited! Also because she's my first girlfriend ever and I love her so much.
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Anonymous asked: So right now I am questioning. I am also really confused. I can only really see myself with a girl, I can definitly picture myself kissing a girl and liking it and i know that guys don't do very much for me. But i don't have any of the other signs. Do you think i'm bi/lez?
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Anonymous asked: i'm going to be meeting my gf for the first time in a while and when i pick her up at the airport, do i kiss her??
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Anonymous asked: I just wanted to say thanks. your blog gave me the strength I needed to come out to my mom, and I plan on telling the rest of my family as well. Thank you!
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Anonymous asked: Question. So I think I found someone who could be my soul mate. Only he's a guy. And being a lesbian is such a central part of my identity that I'd be afraid to come out as straight. I know I could love him but I'd never be attracted to him for his anatomy. Do you think I'm being idiotic if I let him slide by?
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Anonymous asked: I think my girlfriend may be bored of me. We're in a long distance relationship and we talk almost every night on Skype but in the last couple of weeks she seems distant. She tell me she loves me but everything else says otherwise. do you think it's the distance that's getting to her or she just had enough of me?
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Anonymous asked: Can i just say your blog is awesome, thought i was the only one who went through those stages when growing up ( the connection to willow and tara, really makes sense now haha) ! well, my friend and me have been flirting alot recently like holding hands and joking about being a couple and stuff and i got intoxicated last week and told her i was bisexual and she said she thought she was too, we are...
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shadowedsilhouette asked: Hi, I wanted to say that I love your blog. I was looking for something like this with advice and support. Being from a small town and being just about the only lesbian is quite hard. Thank you :)
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Anonymous asked: have you seen this one chart on tumblr of sexual fluidity and stuff? It shows all the possibilities of gender identification and sexual orientation identity.. I saw it but I can't find it anymore.
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Anonymous asked: Does it mean anything if a girl touches you a lot because me and my friend were sitting together and she just started touching my knees alot and rubbing them a little, pulling me closer to her, wrapping her arms with mine, putting her head on me,pulling my face to look at her. But I noticed she likes to hug and hold other people too. Does this mean anything?
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Anonymous asked: How do you define the line between friendship and romance? Because I keep finding that I want to be closer to my best friend and I actually checked her out the other day. She's openly bi and when asked about her ideal girl, it was basically me. But I'm not sure if I'm falling for her or am just really close friends. I do know that I love having her around and that she's my rock...
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Anonymous asked: I'm fourteen, and have already come out to most of my friends as bi, and I think I should come out to my parents because I have a girlfriend. One of my moms best friends is a lesbian, and my dads brother (who he is good friends with) is gay and I think my mom already suspects it, but I'm still nervous. Should I tell them? (Neither of them are religious if that helps.)
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Anonymous asked: The girl I like likes me back! :) I just had to tell somebody. I had a boyfriend but now I can't stay away from girls, and now I know what it's truly like to want somebody. I'm happy about who I am <3
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Anonymous asked: do you think that a girl could have fallen in love with two or more girls (not at the same time I mean) without being lesbian?
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“Just thought I would share my lovely story of finding out I liked girls....”
– marsistheredone
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Anonymous asked: i just found this blog and ive been looking through the "just lez signs" and i do a lot of these things, but does that really mean im lesbian, because i honestly have no idea!! (my favorite food is tacos). I've had major crushes on guys before but not in like a year or more, and i've only kissed a guy once but i stopped because it seemed wrong to be kissing him.
January 2012
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“I’m just going to say I love your blog. I really like how people come to...”
– andherlifewasneverthesame
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Anonymous asked: I can't come out as bi due to cultural and religious reasons (I live in the deep south and people in my area just aren't accepting at all). Due to this I have relationships with guys, but really crave to be with girls... Is it even possible to find girls who are willing to maintain a secret or purely physical relationship? This may sound horrible but its definitely not my intention...
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Anonymous asked: So, I'm pretty straight, but I have always been an ally to the LGBT community. Anyway, a huge joke with my friends is that if there is gay girl within a 3 mile radius of me, she will find me and try to pick me up. It's funny, but it's true. A lot of places I go, girls ask for my number. And I definitely dress like a girl. So, is this like a sign for me that I'm just not...
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Anonymous asked: Is there any STR8 girls on this blog? If so I want to know if I could get a straight girl to like me by wearing men's body spray? Do you think a straight girl would fall for me if I had that on. I know it sounds stupid but a lot of straight girls like the smell on guys and it makes them more attractive. so would they like me a gay girl if I wore the same thing?
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Anonymous asked: What do I do if I know I'm a lesbian, but I don't like saying, "I'm a lesbian " or. struggle when people ask "Are you lesbian? " I mean, I know I'm a lesbian, I just don't know why it feel so weird and I stuggle with that word.